Me Being Bad

So, I remember I noticed I shouldn't be happy for some certain reason, like I'm not really let off, thinking a couple wanted me to call their 1-year-old daughter the "n" word for fun.  Still, if you think about it, it's them telling me to do something for fun.  What if they didn't, though?  It seems like they didn't know what they were doing because things didn't unfurl right.