A Scary Situation

Well, I went to an Indian concert, and there was a very nice lady at the front when I went to buy a bottle of water for $1.  I didn't let her turn me on too much.  There was a man there who acted like she "shouldn't do that."  That insulted me very much, as I don't like to be monitored out of a good experience in a city in a way I don't know much about yet.  It's because they can see I've done something I shouldn't have in the past and have been psyched out of thinking it wasn't my fault.  When I went back there after the concert to buy a CD, she seemed turned off like she did something wrong.  I didn't know it was true that people who are nice to me get into trouble.