Just don't call her.

That's what my dad told me, at times.  He said, if she gets mad, just say, "Gramma, I gotta go."  My grandma understands I don't call her every day.  I have a bit of a grudge.  I don't really enjoy calling her nor talking to my extended family because they all act like I'm a bad person now because I had to withdraw from college.  They keep throwing in suggestions and acting like it doesn't matter.  I'm not gonna point my finger at any one person in the public now, but they do seem sour.  I just don't feel like it.