I think I understand Ellen DeGeneres, now.

She doesn't act like that we all had to be movie stars as kids.  She thinks even in old age it isn't right to have kids.  I'm partly from where she's partly from.  I know it's the kind of place where you hang around.  You hang around and figure out stuff.  You do real stuff.  Things mean something.  You get better and better from it.  I was thinking you live your life and then by the time you're a young adult you marry and have kids.  I guess I'm still living my life, but I don't think it will take me until I'm 50.